When A Strong Woman Can Make You A Better Man

English: Two models on the runway in clothes at a fashion show in , Japan. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Copyright © 2009-2013 Coalton Reynolds

Behind every man, there is a strong women.

After my recent split with my girlfriend of two years I have found myself thinking how much I have changed. At first, I just thought I was only different around her, but now I seem to be a totally different person.

Does being in such a serious relationship make a man change? Obviously spending a lengthy period of time with anyone will change a certain aspect of your life, whether it be something trivial, your fashion sense or in my case my masculinity.

I believe I was so infatuated with this woman, and I spent so much time with her that I actually became "One of the girls". At first I guess it sounds pretty bad, but really its not. The easiest way to have an understanding of women is to spend time with them, hang out with them. You pick up their habits and every women wants a man to go watch a chick-flick with them, and not with someone who is going to pretend to be interested.

Picking up a female's habits are really not that bad though, you might find yourself talking to her about hair and clothes, but the first thing you will notice is that you actually do take much better care of yourself, and you have become a lot more polite. These are the most obvious and the beginning signs that she is starting to "mold" you.

Whether a women wants to admit it or not, when they are in a relationship with a man, they see us for what we are and then they see the potential. They like to change a man to make him more attractive, for their pleasure and maybe their reputation... I don't know, but its true.

You will find yourself dressing in clothes that she has picked for you which "improve" your appearance, but do they? I doubt that there is one guy out there who hasn't received a bad present from a partner, the majority of these will be clothes, matching jumpers, bright shirts, floral patterns and the dreaded skinny jeans.

I used to be a long haired surfer dude, (who couldn't surf), and now with the "guidance" of that special lady I have short neat hair, and I guess you could say I dress preppy. Huge transformation?

English: A model on the runway in clothes at a fashion show in , Japan. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Well I can let you into a secret, most men can - but a lot of us can't - learn how to say no! Tell her enough is enough, unless you want to change.

Think of it this way, the A-list celebs we all see on TV don't pick their own clothes, they have personal shoppers - women they pay to tell them what to wear! And us the lucky guys have it free.

I'm not just saying that women control what we wear, they also control what we eat, our mannerisms and the way we look at other women. Well done girls!

I can honestly say some women have such power to make a man look at the floor when a hot women walks into the room! I know this because I was with a very "powerful" woman.

But if you know how to control it you can avoid it, and another secret women think we don't know is that they indirectly use sex as a weapon. Think of that however you might, but it's true. Women control us, and we let them, and we love them for doing it. It does make us better people, and we love them for it.

One day women will rule the world, although at the moment it may be from behind the scenes. Either way, no man will ever be more powerful, than the woman who made him.




About the Author:
Coalton Reynolds writes about dating and relationships. If you are exploring the online adult dating scene, you may want to consider http://www.nsadatingsite.com/ due to its large membership base of people looking for relationships of all kinds.


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Natural Skin Care Tips for Men

"Healthy skin keeps him on the job" - NARA - 514790 (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Copyright © 2009-2013 Janet Davis

The skin is the largest organ in the human body and one of the hardest working. Not only does it provide a waterproof, protective container for the organs inside the body, it has several functions that are utterly vital to human life - skin regulates body temperature to prevent fever or hypothermia, it screens out a number of unhealthy pathogens in the environment, and it repairs itself relatively quickly from potentially compromising injuries.

In light of all that skin does for the body, the case for proper skin care seems to be a strong one, but frequently skin is the one organ people seem to think they can let take a beating. Hard work, a little too much sunlight, bad diet and other factors can cause quite a bit of damage to the skin, much of which is actually very preventable. Men in particular seem prone to developing roughed up skin, but there are fortunately many ways that men can take better care of this incredibly important organ.

The Basics

Healthy, natural skin care begins with control - specifically controlling what the skin is exposed to. Like any other organ, the skin is part of the body and needs nutrients to survive. In particular, water and vitamins C and E seem to be the most desirable nutrients to focus on. Healthy skin requires water to properly perform the sweating function so regular intake of water is once again a key to a healthy body.

Vitamins C and E help reduce the impact of sun exposure, which means they play a critical role in reducing the incidence of skin cancer. As for minerals, the most important is Selenium (found in whole grain foods and eggs), which again helps the body ward off the development of skin cancer. For some, healthier skin can indeed be had for the addition of a glass of water, a piece of fruit, and two slices of whole grain toast every day.

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Apart from diet, exposure control requires thinking about the environment your skin will be a part of. Sunlight can be healthy, both for emotional well-being and for vitamin D exposure. However, UV radiation can and does cause skin cancer, and every sunburn you receive magnifies the risk. In addition, sunburns are painful and debilitating any way, so avoidance is entirely prudent. An all natural, high SPF and UV blocking sunscreen lotion does not take long to apply and can play a key part in regulating the skin's exposure to the sun. A hat can provide shade to the face and prevent overexposure to the nose and cheeks, while a light, long-sleeved shirt significantly reduces the amount of exposed skin. Again, the key is taking small steps that will lead to big rewards.

The Shave

While men aren't alone in having to shave troublesome body hair, they do have a marked propensity for having to do so on the most frequently exposed part of the body, the face. Shaving takes a toll on the skin as it literally involves dragging sharp blades over the surface of this sensitive organ. Couple this with the fact that many men seem to believe that proper shaving care is hot water before and after the scrape and you have a recipe for chronic skin problems.

In the case of shaving, a little extra effort can leave facial skin healthy and vibrant rather than dried out and irritable. First, don't use ordinary soap. Bar soap is great for getting the hands clean or a quick scrub in the shower, but it has a tendency to deplete natural oils the skin needs to stay healthy. This can lead to either excessively dry skin or excessively oily skin as the body tries to overproduce in compensation. Instead, use a naturally lubricating shaving lotion - there are many natural and organic shaving creams out there, such as those made from sunflower oils.

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Additionally, give the cream time to work. As it sits on the face, it softens the skin and the hairs, making the shave easier on the body. Some users find that a shaving hairbrush whips up much more lather, so you may consider using this as well. After-shaves and balms help soothe the skin and the best ones should include a moisturizing element as well. This extra time should only add a minute or two at most to the shaving routine but in cumulative effect should have a major benefit on the skin's health and appearance.

The Extras

Up until now our focus has been on how to change an existing routine to help take care of skin, but there are other considerations as well. One of these is considering what treatments can be added for good skin care. It's all well and good to replace soap with gentle cleansers and trying to eat healthier, but sometimes even these good efforts don't take care of everything.

Organic and all natural moisturizers are one addition, as are nutrient gels. The skin is often the last part of the nutrition cycle; so adding a little vitamin E based moisturizer certainly can't hurt. Additionally, clay based facial masks can help with nasty bags under the eyes caused by long nights or poor nutrition.

Natural skin care doesn't require long retreats to exotic spas. As with most healthy lifestyles, healthy natural skin care just involves taking positive steps and making small but helpful changes to the routine we already have in place. It's not about a radical new exfoliant, but replacing harsh aftershave with natural, healthy balms. And as with most healthy habits, the best results come from the long-term effort, so stick with it and get the healthy skin you deserve.


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Janet Davis and her husband are health and nutrition entrepreneurs and founders of Mark And Janet, a website with uncompromising, premium products for your health conscious family. For more on going green -- Visit us at http://www.MarkandJanet.com/ or check out our blog at http://www.MarkandJanetBlog.com/


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Best Cologne Gift Sets Are A Great Idea For Men

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Copyright © 2010-2013 Robert Moore

Hair, clothing and looks are important, but the right cologne transforms a man. Giving him the confidence to know he smells good when approaching beautiful women in a club or giving a presentation for work. When it comes to fragrances for men companies now understand that men want to smell good while attending parties, formal events, the office, on a date or simply while relaxing at home.

The right smell can get him through a long day, help him relax, and stay smelling great even on hot summer days. With the wide selection in men's cologne choosing the right fit as a gift or you or someone else is easy when you know what to look for. Presented here are some of the hottest fragrances on the planet designed exclusively for men.

David Beckham - Initimately Beckham - Signature For Him

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Looking to get intimate? Impress a new date or draw admiring glances from women at a party? Then look to the Intimately Beckham Night Cologne! Designed by the world's most famous soccer player it offers a wonderfully intense fragrance sure to get plenty of compliments. Featuring jasmine, mandarin and ginger the scent is distinctly male without being overpowering. It is also glamorous enough for formal events. Another David Beckham scent that is just as captivating is his Signature for Him Cologne including woody orientals. The scent features an elegant blending of South African bush lantana blossom, white amber and sea notes, so potent you can almost see it. The manly fresh scent is so sexy it just might become your signature scent.

Victoria's Secret - Very Sexy 2 for Men

Victoria Secret knows what's hot and what's sexy. That's why the Very Sexy 2 Cologne easily makes the list as one of the best colognes for men. This crisp scent combines white sage, rosewood, sandalwood and lavender for a sexy scent perfect for daytime or nighttime. Wearing Very Sexy 2 while out on the town is an instant conversation starter. Everyone will want to know "what are you wearing?" Of course, you might want to keep this spicy citrus scent a secret just for yourself.

Sean Jean - Unforgivable

Is their anything this mogul can't do? Maybe so, but when it comes to creating a cologne Sean Jean brought his A game. The Unforgivable Cologne is exquisite and delectable. Combing Italian bergamot, grapefruit, rum, Australian sandalwood and Sicilian lemon the scent is seductive and emotionally charged. Perfect for the modern man with global appeal, helping him be more confident and conquer any situation in which he is placed. This magnetic scent will dazzle in a boardroom, or while clubbing.

Michael Jordan - 23 and Jordan

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When it comes to a scent that inspires success, greatness and ambition no other scent can compare to that representing the greatest athlete in basketball history, Michael Jordan. The Michael Jordan 23 Cologne features grapefruit, musk and black currant elements, creating a scent that is fresh and mellow enough for everyday casual wear. Both distinctive and refined this cologne is perfect for teenagers and young adults or those who like a more classic type of scent. Going strong since 2000, is another cologne by the legend, the Jordan Cologne by Michael Jordan. It provides a soft, light and breezy scent that is designed to be long lasting to the wearer. A slight hint of musk makes it perfect for the grown man who wants to feel in control at the office. The bottle and packaging has also been designed with men in mind, creating a gift that they will not be embarrassed to show off.

Avon - Driven Black for Derek Jeter

On first sniff of the Driven Black Cologne, you are instantly treated to an exotic experience. Designed for baseball great Derek Jeter the perfume uses bold elements such as saffron, blood orange and tamboti wood. Showing a man that likes to stand out from the crowd and is passionate about what he wants. Just like the multiple World Series champion and All-Star favorite. With a smell, that inspires passion, creativity, sensuality and mystery Driven Black is perfect for wearing at night.

The best colognes for men are about picking the product that's perfect for you or the gift recipient and shopping for cologne is a lot like picking out new clothing. Go with scents that are personally inspiring and consider the type of occasions on when you want to wear fragrance for the best fit. Gift sets also offer more flexibility, allowing you to make the scent stronger with lotions, deodorant sticks, body washes and shaving balms featuring the same masculine essence. 


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To find these and hundreds of other great gift selections for all occasions, visit us online at http://www.LoveThoseGifts.com/ Always New Arrivals and Gifts On Sale. Written by Robert Moore.


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